In our culture, children are expected to take their father's name and family's names. A child's father's name becomes their middle name and their father's family name becomes their surname. This is a tradition that has been around for centuries and is a sign of respect for the father's family lineage. But what about the mother's family lineage?
I've always wondered where I fit into my child's name. Aren't our children the product of both parents? If so, shouldn't their names reflect it?
As a single mother, I think to myself, my son bears his father's name, and yet I am left with all the parenting responsibilities. Is it fair? I'm not quite sure.
Despite carrying the child for nine months, the mother is not able to pass on her identity to her child.
Even though I am aware that this isn't a popular opinion, but maybe food for thought?
By - Divya Idnani
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